Friday, October 21, 2011

Red Sox fan?

After many prayers, long discussions and a fantastic phone conference with a world renowned surgeon, we have made the decision that Koal will have his next surgery in Boston in about a month. We spoke with Dr. del Nido last week, and we were so impressed with him and all the information he gave us, we had such peace to make the decision to travel to Boston for Koal’s continuing care. The man is AMAZING and seems very confident that the concerns the team has here are not going to be difficult to work through there. He is an expert at the type of surgery our little man needs, and he assured us that he would not recommend something he didn’t believe was for the best, and that he will make decisions as needed during surgery if something is not as we expect once he begins.  I got a call from the scheduler at Children’s Hospital Boston yesterday, and we were hoping to set dates in place, but she said she will call this next week to determine dates for all procedures. Unfortunately she also said it is probably that the earliest we could get in is early December. After speaking with the cardiologist and surgeon we were expecting sometime mid-November for a surgery date, but it seems that may not be the case.  This process for setting the dates for surgery is so bittersweet, as we are thrilled to begin planning for a trip that will save little Koal’s life, and yet my heart aches knowing we will most likely be gone for both Kade’s 4th birthday AND Christmas. I am so devastated to even think about having to spend those special times away from Kade and Adry. The approximate time for staying in Boston is 3 weeks.  This includes a few days prior to surgery to have an MRI and echocardiogram done, then about 2 weeks in the hospital having and recovering from surgery, followed by 3-4 days in the Boston area before we return home, so doctors can evaluate Koal’s progress and check medication levels, etc. a few days post hospital release. We will have much more information soon about dates and details, but for now we pray for God’s perfect timing with all of it.

Quick update on Koal and the crying and reflux:  Unfortunately, not much better. L  I do think there is some improvement…the crying doesn’t usually go all night, and the daytime drama has decreased some as well, BUT, we are still up nightly, sometimes only for a ½ hour or so, but other times for an hour or more once to twice a night. Poor little dude…and poor tired us! No, we are hanging in there, but we do long for a good night’s rest, and for our sweet little man to feel good enough to sleep peacefully as well.
Again, thank you so much for your continued thoughts and prayers for us.  Here are some specific ways we need prayer at this time:

*For the timing of Koal’s surgery in Boston. Perhaps it is selfish, but I want SO VERY MUCH to be able to be home with Kade and Adry for Christmas, so please pray that the timing will be absolutely perfect and that God will work things out in His perfect plan.

*For insurance approval for the surgery to come through quickly and without issues.

*For the details and planning surrounding the trip to Boston as well. Once we know dates we will have quite a few things to pull together in a few week’s time – plane tickets, housing, transportation issues, kids schedules, finances, and so much more.  Pray for God to go before us and work all things out – every detail – and that He would give us wisdom and peace as we enter into this stage of planning and preparing.

*For Koal’s reflux and crying. Pray that as he grows and develops that his tummy would become less of an issue and that he would return to his great sleeping patterns soon. Pray that he would not be in any pain, and that Adam and I could get some much needed sleep as well. 

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Prayers always , my darlings.... and we will be there whenever you say the word. Will also bring truckloads of cash if you need it! Well, maybe an envelope full? love you so very much.
mom

October 21, 2011 at 7:50 PM  
Anonymous Aunt Michele said...

Thank you so much for the update. My prayers are with you daily and the specific prayers help so much knowing what you are asking the Lord's answers to. I talked to Grandma Melanie and I could hear in her voice the worry but optimism that the Lord will guide and direct you under His perfect plan. Please know all of your extended family is praying for you and Adam and for your precious little ones. Please let us k now as the time gets closer as to your travel needs and whatever we can do from afar to help. I know the Lord has some pretty amazing things in store for Koal and the destiny he was born to fulfill. It's already evident watching your strength and peace in all you have had to face and your trust in whatever the Lord has planned. I know you're decision to follow the advice of the Boston docs must have been a hard one but I feel in my heart that it was exactly the right decision - sometimes I just feel the Lord's presence and I can tell He has a hedge of protection over each of you and will guide you in whatever decisions lie ahead. Where would we be without the ability to rest in the Lord's arms when we don't know what direction we need to follow? Your faith is so evident and I know God has a special destiny for your family. You keep trying to get the rest you need and we will do our part in lifting you up in prayer. Lots of love. Aunt Michele

October 22, 2011 at 11:40 AM  
Anonymous Char Bush said...

Please know you and yours continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We're so glad to hear that the doctor/medical team involved is so amazing and that you feel good about the decision to go to Boston for Koal's care. While there is so much involved in the details--it's great to know that you feel good about the care he will receive and the surgeon involved. That will provide a strong foundation for the decisions ahead and knowing you have a strong medical team behind you and God ahead of you providing you with strength, hope and courage. We are all praying for your little man--and that he will get rest soon along with you guys! Also for your family as you gear for being away and all that will mean for you and yours. Your extended family wants to help through prayer and any other way we can so keep us posted. Char & Crew :)

October 26, 2011 at 3:36 PM  
Anonymous Julie Nobles said...

Do they have a Ronald McDonald house?

November 3, 2011 at 8:44 AM  
Anonymous Aunt Michele said...

I know Christmas is a concern but you know what - a Christmas celebration doesn't have to be on December 25th especially when you are looking at little ones. Put up the tree, decorate the house and lay out the gifts under the tree to start the excitement and then plan a day for the big reveal. You have so many family members that could come over that same day to see what all the kids got for Christmas and have a Christmas dinner. The kids are little enough to not notice the date and you will be there to see all the anticipation and laughter as they open gifts. It's one of those times when you can celebrate the Lord's birth (which is the teachable moment) and be there with them to build the memory. I know there is a lot going on and this would just add to all you have to do but I think your hearts would love knowing you were with them for such a special time. Just my thoughts but I know your heart must be hurting thinking you would miss Christmas with them but its just a date - the real celebration is the baby Jesus birth and you can celebrate that at anytime with them - pick a day and make the memories. I know your family would love to help you with putting it all together and would love a day to spend with all of you before you leave. Love You Bunches and we are all praying for each of you. Aunt Michlele

November 3, 2011 at 9:32 AM  

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